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the early years
At that time farming and ranching were an obvious way to try and make a living.
In October of 1929 came the Great Depression. Although it seemed that the Depression did not bother the families living off the land in Kim, its implications in terms of Government support would play a larger role later in Papa's life. On 2/17/1930, 6 months before Papa's 16th birthday, his father Robert Sr passed away in La Junta, CO due to pneumonia. Robert Sr had just turned 40 years of age. The hardships were obvious: a mother of 3 (ages 4, 9, and 15), suffering from Multiple Sclerosis, with a 640 acre family ranch and about 300 head of cattle to manage. The next 6 years would prove to be some of the most difficult endured by the family, and by Papa in particular. He had to deal with, on the one hand, the responsibilities as the eldest male in the house, and on the other hand the contradicting forces of teenage rebelliousness and irresponsibility. A contentious relationship with his Mother was only made worse (in the firm belief of Papa) by the Murphy's, neighbors of the Johnson's who would constantly pester Mary Ella with stories of Lee Jr's escapades (which, Papa swears in his later years, were always exaggerated). After some time Lee Jr. felt that his mother had lost trust in him, due in part to the Murphy's, and his stubborn response was to be the bad boy that they portrayed him as. Papa ended up quitting High School after his Daddy passed away. While it seems obvious that such a step was required to help take care of the family and ranch, the fact is that it was important to Papa's mother that he finish High School (she was terribly disappointed when I quit, Papa said later). There was likely too much stubbornness on Papa's behalf which caused him to decide on his own to quit school. At the time Papa was bothered by jealousy towards his brother JY; Mary Ella had been a middle child who did not get much attention growing up, and she had said on different occasions that she would spoil her middle child to somehow make up for her loss, and this behavior (whether true or perceived) became a thorn in the relationship between Papa and his Mother.
[The Kansas Mennonites came mostly from Russia; considered as being similar to Quakers, and roughly falling under the Christian umbrella, they are distinguished for their plainness in dress, economy in their domestic arrangements, and their industry, thrift, and frugality. It is against their principles to vote or hold office, and they believe that members of the church are not at liberty to marry with unbelievers. The Mennonites will not bear arms or take an oath, and are usually hospitable to strangers, take them in and treat them kindly without compensation.] In 1934, Papa returned from Kansas a more grounded and calm man, and over time things became a little better between he and his Mother.
Nana had a single sister Fairy, born in 1924, and around 1933 the family moved to Kim
so that Nana could attend High School. (Nana - unlike Papa - wasn't big at reminiscing,
so it was always difficult to get more details from her).
Once at Kim Nana was deeply involved in her High School classes (her freshman
class numbered 47, sophomore class 36, and the graduating senior class 9 students).
She participated with the school newspaper and yearbook (The Stinger), as well as with
different clubs (Glee, Drama) and sports (baseball, basketball, track).
At Graduation Nana read the Class Will, to include a bequeathal of her own:
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